Creating New Pathways for Aging in Place
All my life I’ve imagined what I wanted and made choices to make those dreams come true. Why not now in these precious, extended years we’ve been given? As a result of a great deal of research and soul-searching about the best way for us to remain safe, well and engaged throughout whatever time is left, my husband, Michael, and I have already begun to make preparations to age in community. The alternative would be to leave all preparation until a sudden crisis puts pressure on us or our children to act in haste.
Because the bulk of housing – even new construction – isn’t designed for a safe and flexible lifestyle for people of all ages, we’re creating something new. As founding members of Screen Door Cohousing our vision is living in strong relationship to a group of neighbors, bound together by respect, compassion, and joy. We are building our membership diversity, to fulfill a key shared value. Our intention is to tread lightly on the earth as we enjoy a beautiful site just outside of the urban downtown Asheville. As we age and grow together in this peaceful, supportive setting, we will continue to learn from each other, care for each other, and enable one another to live into our hopes for the world. If you are, indeed, inspired by this vision, please contact us.
Philosophy: What is the Purpose of Life?
I like Rabbi Amy Scheinerman’s response to this question, because I find her teaching understandable and in sync with the way I’ve lived my own life; that’s very validating. There’s nothing in this essay that requires one to be working nine to five, raising children, having a leadership position, measuring output against any standard except their personal values. In other words, there’s nothing that precludes an aged or disabled person from leading a purposeful life. Read The Purpose of Life and decide how purpose is motivating your life today.
Poetry: Walking Haiku
“Haiku” is a traditional form of Japanese poetry. Haiku poems consist of 3 lines. The first and last lines of a Haiku have 5 syllables and the middle line has 7 syllables. The lines rarely rhyme.
Several years ago I took a workshop on the use of haiku as a walking meditation practice from an artist/poet Jenna Weston. I don’t practice regularly, but when immersed in nature this art/meditation form almost always calls to me. I am grounded and elated by the process of sensing a moment in nature and selecting a few targeted, rhythmic words to express the interior and exterior connections made in that instant.
Poster: What’s Better Than Being Retired?